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Heart Words: What They Are, How to Teach Them and a List by Stage

By Kids Learning editorial team · Updated

Heart words are common words with at least one part that does not follow the letter-sound patterns a child has been taught. The, was, said, of and you are classic examples. The name comes from a simple idea: you work out the regular parts by sounding them out, and you learn the tricky part by heart.

That second half matters. A heart word is rarely 100 percent irregular. In said, the s and the d are regular. Only the middle is unusual, because ai makes the short e sound. Teaching the word this way lets a child use what they know and focus memory on one small spot.

Heart words vs. sight words

The two terms are often used as if they mean the same thing, and they overlap. The difference is in the method.

Sight-word approachHeart-word approach
UnitThe whole wordThe tricky part of the word
MethodMemorize the word shapeSound out the regular letters, mark the unusual one
Typical toolFlash cardsTap the sounds, then circle or heart the tricky part
Message to the child"Just know this one""Most of this word works. One part is a surprise"

A heart-word approach keeps the child using phonics even on irregular words, which is the habit you want them to keep.

Why heart words depend on the stage

A word is only "tricky" relative to what a child has been taught. Go is irregular for a child who has only met short vowels, because o says its own name here. Later, when long vowel sounds have been taught, the same word is no longer much of a surprise.

That is why good materials introduce heart words in a planned order, a few at a time, as the stories need them. A decodable text should never ask a child to read a tricky word that has not yet been taught. If it does, the child is back to guessing.

Heart words by stage

This is the list used in The Decodable Readers Library. Each stage adds new words, and earlier ones stay in use.

StageNameNew heart words
1First Soundsthe, a, I, is, to, and, his, has
2All Short Vowelsof, was, you, he, she, we, me, be, said, are, do, no, go, so
3Digraph Detectivesthey, what, where, there, here, one, two, put, want, come, some, look
4Blend Buildershave, give, live, who, from, your, were, could, would, should, many, any
5Magic Edone, gone, love, once, other, mother, brother, friend, again, only
6Long Vowel Teamswater, because, does, great, eye, people, very, every
7Bossy Rword, work, world, learn, early, heart, door, floor
8Sound Twinsthrough, thought, laugh, busy, pretty, sure, half, walk, talk
9Big Word Readersbeautiful, special, favorite, enough, answer, different, together, usually, clothes, their, whole, young

Two things stand out when you read the table. First, the count per stage is small: from 8 to 14 words. Second, the words arrive when the stories need them, so where and there turn up with the digraph stage and because and people with the long vowel teams.

A one-minute routine for teaching a heart word

Use this routine for each new word. It takes about a minute and works at the kitchen table.

  1. Say it. You say the word, and your child says it back.
  2. Tap it. Tap a finger for each sound: s - ai - d.
  3. Find the heart. Ask which part is the surprise. In said, it is the middle: ai says /e/ here.
  4. Write it. Trace the word with a finger, then write it from memory, marking a small heart over the tricky part.
  5. Use it. Say a sentence that uses the word: "She said hello."

A short exchange might sound like this.

You: This word is said. Let's tap it. /s/ /ai/ /d/. Which part is tricky? Child: The middle! It says /e/. You: Right. Let's put a heart on the tricky part.

How to practice heart words at home

Ten seconds here and there beats a long drill. These ideas fit into an ordinary day.

What to do when a child mixes up a heart word

Children often confuse look-alike words such as were and where, or there and they. Treat each confusion as a prompt to look at the tricky part, not as a failure. Ask, "Which letters are different?" and "Which part is the surprise in this one?" Then re-read the sentence.

If a child keeps mixing up a pair, separate the two words for a while. Teach one thoroughly, use it in stories for a week, then bring the other back.

How the library teaches heart words

In The Decodable Readers Library, heart words appear in heart-shaped boxes on every warm-up page, so the child sees them before the story starts. The story then repeats them, and the Parent Guide spells out the one-minute routine above. Because the words are introduced in the stage order shown in the table, a child does not meet a tricky word in a story before it has been taught.

A Stage 3 story page, Pip's Fish Wish, with an illustration and three decodable sentences

There are 108 stories across 9 stages, and a 3-Minute Placement Test that tells you which stage to begin with, so you can skip words your child already knows.

To see how heart words fit with the rest of the phonics order, read the phonics scope and sequence guide. If you are new to the idea of text that only uses taught patterns, start with what decodable books are. For a tour of the stages, see decodable readers: the 9 stages, and for the skill that comes before most heart words, how to teach blending.

Frequently asked questions

What are heart words in phonics?

Heart words are common words with a part that does not follow the usual letter-sound rules, such as said, was and the. The name comes from the idea of learning the tricky part by heart. The regular parts of the word are still sounded out.

Are heart words the same as sight words?

They overlap, but the approach differs. A sight-word approach asks a child to remember the whole word. A heart-word approach has the child sound out the regular letters and mark only the tricky part to remember.

How many heart words should a child learn at a time?

A few at a time, in the order the reading material needs them. In this library Stage 1 introduces 8, and later stages add 8 to 14 more, so no story asks a child to read a tricky word that has not been taught.

Should I use flash cards for heart words?

They are not required. A short routine of saying the word, tapping the sounds, finding the tricky part, writing it and using it in a sentence works, and the words then appear again in the stories where the child can see them used.

Where can I find a list of heart words?

There is no single official list, because it depends on the phonics order a program follows. A word is a heart word only relative to what the child has been taught. The list below shows the words used at each of the 9 stages of this library.